Some people just don't get it - many women today are independent by the time they marry or take a partner - and they hope to keep some of that independence in the relationship.
At the start of the relationship they do not expect or want their husbands/partners to be the 'master' of the home but would rather see them as an equal. Unfortunately some husbands/partners do not realise this and try to dominate and control their other half.
After a few years of this many women start to rebel because at the start they expected equality in the relationship and over time they realise they will never achieve this. So the couple reach the beginning of the end of the partnership, and love goes cold.
We all know what happened in earlier times when the husband was allowed full control of their wives -- some became overbearing bullies and yet this lesson has not been learnt by some.
Is you marriage failing? Is it because one of you is too controlling? And Yes, it can happen both ways - there are controlling women as well.
For heavans sake - come into the 21st century - see your partner as an equal not a doormat.
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