Lyssa's Father

I have known Lyssa for almost forty years and now see her as my daughter. During much of that time I had considerable experience in law enforcement and am not about to let an ex police officer who was discharged from the force because of mental illness continue to harrass my daughter without speaking up for her!

If what I am about to say sounds unsympathetic regarding bipolar disorder then you have never been her position and have not suffered the years of verbal abuse and control which she has, followed by the loss of your much loved children.
I have read her ex-husband's emails and texts and I consider that he has overstepped the mark on many occasions. He keeps quoting rules and regulations in order to show off his legal knowledge as though he is still a police officer, and threatens to bring down the law on her while making no effort to negotiate a solution. Anyone with a balanced mind reading these would realise they are the words of a bully and often do not make sense. He is obviously a man suffering anger because his wife divorced him and wants his revenge.

I have personally witnessed him losing his temper for no apparent reason. She put up with this man for a very long time, and tried to support and understand his problems in the hope she could cope and keep the marriage alive despite him asking for a divorce in 2008 and doing everything he could to destoy the marriage but all he did was destroy her love for him. He blames her but he should look inwardly at himself and consider what he is doing to someone he once professed he loved.

She was a good mother and when she began divorce proceedings he began a devious plan to alienate the children from her and without warning or discussion abducted the children.
I have to tell him this is not the way a normal, decent father behaves especially when their mother has made it clear she had no wish to isolate the children from him. He has completely absolved himself from what occurred in 2008 and has made no effort to make it clear to the children that she left him with good reason at that time.
Unfortunately his actions regarding them will have an everlasting effect on their future lives, and the loss of her children has devastated their mother.
My daughter is a very loving and caring person and has many friends and is respected by her colleagues. She worked hard throughout her marriage to provide for her husband and children and at times was the breadwinner. She loves her children very much but now, because of Warden's behaviour, is unable to show them.
What is additionally painful to her is the fact that both children now blame her for leaving their father in 2008. It makes me wonder why the children, now twelve and seventeen, believe she did this without good reason? Does the fact that their father is a hypnotherapist have anything to do with this?
Read her diary and see what you think!

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