Thanks, Alicia. You have my sympathy. Yes, I also find it unbelievable that a mother can be awarded the care of her children and still nothing is done to the father when he continues to defy the court. There is only so much one can give of oneself after so many years battling someone who turns out to be, as you say, completely unbalanced especially when they see themselves as the saviour of the world. That, unfortunately, is one of the delusions some who suffer from bipolar can have. One can hope that eventually the children will see sense and will turn away from him. Certainly what he has done is unforgivable. But you know there is a saying 'What goes around comes around.' I truly believe in this and have seen it happen so often and when it does it often happens  that it is repaid ten fold.