You don’t live in the past, you don’t live in the future. You learn from the past and can live in the hope that the future will be better, but the fact is you live now.
If you have a problem relationship then perhaps the only thing making you hold on is the hope of a better future, which means your relationship is on shaky grounds. While the future you wish for is one of the many possibilities that can occur, it is equally possible what you wished for may never bcome reality.
Don't base your relationship on something that might not occur such as the other person changing to suit you. You cannot change people and you should not expect them to change just to suit you.
In reality we all change over the years - and since the day you meet someone you believe is special and start making plans for a future together - you start to change but it would be wrong to be made to feel we have to change because the other person wants us to.
Don't waste more of your life hoping things will improve - keep in mind that letting go isn’t the end of the world, it’s the beginning of a new life.
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