Rejection by someone can often bring about a desire to show them just what they are missing and how much better off you are without them. But it's all a lie, and deep down inside you know it. Whatever you do and however much you try to show it doesn't matter to you - your actions are clear for all to see - you are trying to rub their nose in it.
While you try to persuade yourself and others that you are not hurting and have gained a better life, you know - deep inside - that it will never make up for what you have lost. If you are sensible you will come to your senses and realise that your actions have been a waste of time - you are stuck in limbo - unable to move back or forward - while they have put all thoughts of you behind them and are moving forward and getting on with their life.
Learn a life lesson. Stop trying to make them feel guilty or regretful because they aren't. They have put you out of their mind and are exploring their freedom.
Pick up the pieces, and start living your life again .
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